Make Your New Year Resolutions Specific

Yes, I’m one of those who makes resolutions each year, but I’ve actually learned a little trick or two to help me achieve success with resolutions.  If you, too, are a resolution-writer, try something different — get real!  Instead of vowing to lose 20 pounds this year, resolve to meet with a dietician, seek a diet-buddy, or sign up for a fitness class.  The action-oriented approach makes a real difference, because it isn’t some generalized subject that you need to address sometime this year.  You can book this action as a step to take — making your resolution more likely to happen.  Also, it helps to get really specific.  So, instead of writing a resolution that says “look for a new job,” your resolution would be to “define desired position and hire a resume-writer to boost your resume.”  Since we all know that this time of year is the most popular season for people to reconsider their careers and jobs, a well-developed resolution around this subject will be key.  If you really-really want a new work direction in 2008, then your resolution needs to sound more like a plan than a “note to self.”  But, changing a career or job is a major transition and can trigger other transitions in your personal life.  It might mean making a location or lifestyle change.  Get ready for shifts in personal relationships, and, how about a little bit of tension or anxiety within yourself.  That clarity of intention is going to be important — so spend a little time thinking about what you hate about your current job or career and what you’d like in a new one.  Decide if YOU have some personal issues to resolve before you need to be making any big changes.  Then consider some employers you know might be ideal for you in your new quest.  Talk to people in your network — lots of social networking going on during the holidays - perfect time to do some info gathering without giving yourself away.  People love talking about themselves and their jobs.  Then, get busy, and write up a few really strong resolutions that will support you this year — not only in your work life — but in your personal life as well.  I’ve developed a New Year’s Resolution Guide that is an 11-page workbook that you can get a little preview of at — see www.marykurek.com  It’s part of my 2008 Make it Happen Kit for Creative Entrepreneurs.  Happy Holidays.

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